The world has changed greatly over time and
still continues to change today. However, some things remain the same,
such us key habits for lasting happiness and success. If you are
interested in achieving happiness and success, then you should know some
of the key daily habits of truly happy and successful people that have
timeless application. Here are 15 of the top daily habits of successful
people that can make you truly happy and successful if you apply them in
your own life.
1. Plan ahead
In today’s fast-paced life, not many people plan
ahead. Those who do think through and plan their days ahead of time set
themselves up for true happiness and success. Set clear, actionable
goals for the day (and the future) and you will give your chances of
success a real boost.
2. Visualize success
Don’t just plan ahead. Visualize your own success
and victory to remain focused, motivated and to keep going no matter
what. Think about what it will feel like to achieve your dream and
acknowledge that more will be achieved during the process of reaching
the dream than the actual act of reaching the dream. That is how to keep
your dreams alive.
3. Go where the action is
Don’t shy away from challenges. Challenges give you
the opportunity to apply yourself, learn and be part of something
wonderful that might make a difference. Truly happy people are not those
who hide behind closed doors in times of war, but those who pick up
their swords, go where the action is and give it their best shot. It’s
much better to try and fail, than fail to try.
4. Trust your abilities
Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, as
well as different creativity levels. Truly happy and successful people
understand their weak points and also fully believe in their strong
points. This allows them to seek help and guidance when they need it and
offer the same when they can. Show trust and confidence in yourself and
your abilities daily by boldly tackling what needs to be done. It is
through self-belief and confidence that you establish routines that push
you to success and happiness.
5. Work hard
Hard work and persistence are secret ingredients
for lasting success. If you work harder than everyone else and give it
your best shot each day, success will come to you eventually and you
will enjoy it. The fruits of hard labor are the sweetest.
6. Go home at the end of the day
Some people make a habit of regularly sleeping
somewhere else other than home after a long day at work. Don’t do that.
Go home to your family every day to set the right example and prove you
care and respect your family. Of course, sometimes you might have
legitimate reasons not to go straight home at the end of the day, but
don’t make excuses for sleeping outside.
7. Get enough sleep
It has lately become fashionable to say people need
sleep, but millions of people still don’t get enough sleep today. Your
body needs sleep not just for rest and relaxation, but also to prevent sleep disorders
like daytime sleepiness that can severely interfere with your ability
to perform daily activities that bring happiness and success. Get an
average of eight hours of sleep a night for adequate rest and relaxation
and to ensure you wake up each morning refreshed and re-energized for
the day ahead.
8. Wake up early
Wake up early at the same time before 6 am daily.
The large number of truly happy and successful people who are proud
early risers proves that this sleep routing works. If you want to give
yourself a head start on the rest of the world, then you must become an early riser yourself.
As the Dalai Lama says, “Everyday, think as you
wake up, ‘today I am fortunate to have woken up, I am alive, I have a
precious human life, I am not going to waste it. I am going to use all
my energies to develop myself, to expand my heart out to others, to
achieve enlightenment for the benefit of all beings, I am going to have
kind thoughts towards others, I am not going to get angry or think badly
about others, I am going to benefit others as much as I can.”
9. Exercise daily
Exercise is not only good for your heart and your
physical fitness, but also for pumping more oxygen to the brain and
improving your brain power.
Truly successful and happy people know this and make a habit of
exercising daily. Whether it is short jogs in the morning before work or
CrossFit workouts in the evening after work, exercise daily to boost
your overall well-being, happiness and success.
10. Wear clean, appropriate clothes
Whether it’s a full office outfit like a navy blue
suit for bankers, casual attire like jeans for department store
attendants or comfy pajamas for home workers, what you wear matters a
lot. It can affect how you feel about yourself and the way you perform
your duties throughout the day. Wear clean, appropriate clothes every
morning to get in the right mindset and facilitate productivity,
depending on your work and plans for the day.
11. Read every day
Reading is to the mind what exercise is to the
body. Whether it is reading the daily newspaper in the morning or a
favorite novel in the afternoon, reading widely and regularly sharpens
your mind and broadens your perspective. It helps you understand and
appreciate the intricacies of life a lot more.
12. Spend quality time with loved ones
Quality time is giving someone your undivided
attention. It can be your spouse, kids, parents or close friends, but
spending quality time with loved ones talking and listening to each
other strengthens your bond and allows you to know one another better.
It unites you and brings a lot of happiness. Do this regularly and you
will feel truly loved, connected and happy in life.
13. Show kindness to other people
As much as 99% of the people you see out there are
strangers. But, the majority of these strangers are good and decent
people. Show love, concern and kindness to them whenever possible. A
simple hello to the person in the elevator with you can make their day.
Helping that elderly lady cross the busy road is simply nice and humane.
When you show kindness daily you not only make new connections, but
also make your own day brighter.
14. Forgive someone new each day
Don’t hold grudges. Grudges weigh you down and hinder your happiness and success. Just forgive and move forward. In fact, forgive someone new every day. If you can’t find someone new to forgive, forgive yourself for things you did (or didn’t do) before you go to bed. It will take the edge off and help you overcome resentment, which steals your time and energy.15. Repeat what works for you
When you find what work for you, repeat and strive
to do it better. Similarly, review and change what doesn’t work. This is
perhaps the most important advice you should take away today. As
Aristotle said, “We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence is not an act,
but a habit.”
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